My dad cheated on my mom with multiple women and destroyed my family. When people cheat you don't just hurt your wife/husband, you hurt your kids, and you lose family friends. Cheating is one of the worst things you can do to a human-being.
So, since my dad cheated and I looked up to him so much, I thought everyone was a cheater. I became very jealous and I didn't trust anyone. It ruined all my past relationships and none of them had a chance because I didn't trust them
Finally one day I met this girl named Jordan and we started dating. I was jealous at first and I didn't trust her at all, but then I saw my relationship going down the drain again. I had two options to decide to let someone in and trust them or ruin everything just like all my last relationships.
I decided to trust and it was the best decision I've ever made. I ended up marrying her and we have an amazing marriage built on trust. That doesn't mean we don't feel jealous from time to time because we do. But we know that we are with each other through thick and thin forever.
My advice to you is if you don't trust people because you've been hurt is to try to trust. If people are going to cheat you can't stop them and no matter how jealous you get if they are going to cheat they are going to cheat. It doesn't help to worry. When you find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with try trusting them. Let them in and see what happens. You can't always play it safe because that' not living. You have to take risks for your happiness and for the people you can't live without.
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