Romance is a funny word. Just saying that word makes, "manly men" cringe. They think of all the cheesy romantic movies they've seen and they think that it isn't for them. Well I agree and disagree with that statement.
Yes romance isn't for them, it is for their wife. Most women love being romantic and I think it is important in a marriage to at least have a little bit of romance. I'm not saying you have to cover the bed in rose pedals or anything. I'm just saying maybe from time to time you just bring her some flowers or suprise her with her favorite candy. Your wife would love that stuff.
My advice to guys is to embrace a little bit of romance because I guarantee your wife would love it.
Thursday, May 7, 2015
When storms come!!
I figured this title was appropriate after last night. Those tornados were nuts... But anyways I'm not talking about mother nature when I say storms I'm talking about problems in your marriage.
People's problems range from many things like money problems, trust problems, to even space problems. Every marriage will run into a snag here or there or even major snags. The question is what to do you do when the snag comes? Do you take the easy way out? Or do you fight for your marriage?
When God made marriage he intended it to last forever! So what's up with society saying it's okay to divorce after fighting a little or because your not happy? Happiness is a choice and if you rely on someone else for your happiness you got it all wrong.
Love is not just a feeling either, it's verb sometimes. You don't stay in that honey moon phase of love forever you move on and somedays it's hard. But at the end of the day it's your choice and you chose to married that person. I think when people get married now days they don't think about their entire lives with that person. They think even going into marriage if I'm unhappy I could always get a divorce and that is the wrong way to think. When you marry someone and say those vows you should know it's you and your spouse through thick and thin forever.
Sorry that's been on my mind lately with many families I know ending in divorce including my own parents.
My advice is work through your problems as a couple and do not give up. Fight together!!
People's problems range from many things like money problems, trust problems, to even space problems. Every marriage will run into a snag here or there or even major snags. The question is what to do you do when the snag comes? Do you take the easy way out? Or do you fight for your marriage?
When God made marriage he intended it to last forever! So what's up with society saying it's okay to divorce after fighting a little or because your not happy? Happiness is a choice and if you rely on someone else for your happiness you got it all wrong.
Love is not just a feeling either, it's verb sometimes. You don't stay in that honey moon phase of love forever you move on and somedays it's hard. But at the end of the day it's your choice and you chose to married that person. I think when people get married now days they don't think about their entire lives with that person. They think even going into marriage if I'm unhappy I could always get a divorce and that is the wrong way to think. When you marry someone and say those vows you should know it's you and your spouse through thick and thin forever.
Sorry that's been on my mind lately with many families I know ending in divorce including my own parents.
My advice is work through your problems as a couple and do not give up. Fight together!!
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